SMOKING BY THE CLOCK
By Dr. Daniel Seidman
From: Breathe
Easier: Stop Smoking
Many people
confuse breaking free of smoking and waiting to smoke. They are not the same
thing! Allowing yourself to heal from smoking addiction, both mentally and
physically, involves a release, letting yourself off the hook of addiction.
This is a different mental approach than "hard knuckle" willpower and
toughing it out. The "willpower only" approach can build up tension
over time and set you up for a smoking relapse.
How long can you hold onto the side of a mountain? As you feel heavier over
time, chances are you will fall of your own weight.
The approach we are suggesting, on the other hand, involves releasing yourself
from the addiction altogether. In this approach, the goal is accepting that
life will be better without tobacco. This acceptance is emotional, not just in
your surface, everyday consciousness. In other words, it takes place somewhere
deep inside. So remember you are accepting life without tobacco, not
just waiting to smoke.
This exercise is a short-term way to help you prepare for the day you will go
tobacco-free altogether. The object is to literally schedule your smoking.
Count the number of cigarettes you smoke each day. Then count the numbers of
hours you are awake each day.
For example, if you are awake 18 hours a day and you smoke 18 cigarettes a day,
you would schedule to smoke one cigarette per hour as follows 8 a.m., 9 a.m.,
10 a.m., etc. If you miss a strike of the clock, do not double up later.
Remember, once you make the schedule, stick with it. The purpose is to begin to
wean you from your usual patterns and triggers—like situations, thoughts or
feelings—connected with smoking. We want to help take you off automatic pilot
and help begin to interrupt these patterns, so you can better ease out of them
on the day you choose to become tobacco-free.
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Identify strategies to disarm your common smoking triggers
(or copy the questions that are at end of the page.)
One more key to success with this exercise: Don't try to cut down on the number
of cigarettes you smoke each day at this point; just stick to your schedule so
you can't smoke them when you want to, only when the clock tells you its time.
For now, surrender to the clock!
Write down new ways
you will cope with these common smoking triggers.
Being around
smokers
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Drinking alcohol
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Depression,
anxiety and nervousness
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Drinking coffee
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After meals
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Loneliness
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Everyday
frustrations
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Interpersonal
problems
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Using the
restroom
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Watching TV or
talking on telephone
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When I first get
up in the morning
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Weight concerns
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COPING WITH SMOKING
TRIGGERS
By Dr. Daniel Seidman
(From the oprah show, according to Dr. Oz. )